Comments on: Abused Father Syndrome http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html Putting equal parenting on the agenda Thu, 08 Sep 2011 01:55:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: kipling777 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html/comment-page-1#comment-74 kipling777 Fri, 23 Jul 2010 01:28:16 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=197#comment-74 Yes. I liken the provocation to someone poking you gently in the arm with a finger. Nothing serious but eventually, if it doesn't stop....I feel so sorry for those Dads that are pushed over the edge. The Mum then says, there I told you he was unstable, that's why he committed murder/suicide. Self-fulfilling prophesy I'm only still here because of friends and support from wherever I could get it Yes.

I liken the provocation to someone poking you gently in the arm with a finger. Nothing serious but eventually, if it doesn’t stop….I feel so sorry for those Dads that are pushed over the edge. The Mum then says, there I told you he was unstable, that’s why he committed murder/suicide. Self-fulfilling prophesy

I’m only still here because of friends and support from wherever I could get it

]]> By: helen1209 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html/comment-page-1#comment-29 helen1209 Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:10:22 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=197#comment-29 I have only just found that such a thing as Parental Alienation Syndrome exists and am so releived that it is highly unlikely to be my fault and only wish I had found this information earlier. My daughter has not spoken to me or seen me since 7th January 2008, she will be sixteen in December. Her father emotionally and psychologically abused me throughout our 12 year relationship (ending when my daughter was 8 - I simply could not take it anymore). I never thought he would be capable of doing this to his child though. Since our separation he has clearly worked at it for sometime, culminating in succeeding in my daughter telling me she hates me and never wants to see me again. Abused father and indeed ...mother Syndrome definately does exist! I have only just found that such a thing as Parental Alienation Syndrome exists and am so releived that it is highly unlikely to be my fault and only wish I had found this information earlier. My daughter has not spoken to me or seen me since 7th January 2008, she will be sixteen in December. Her father emotionally and psychologically abused me throughout our 12 year relationship (ending when my daughter was 8 – I simply could not take it anymore). I never thought he would be capable of doing this to his child though. Since our separation he has clearly worked at it for sometime, culminating in succeeding in my daughter telling me she hates me and never wants to see me again. Abused father and indeed …mother Syndrome definately does exist!

]]> By: Phoebe http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html/comment-page-1#comment-26 Phoebe Thu, 01 Oct 2009 00:28:05 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=197#comment-26 Abused Father Syndrome is very real. As a member of FNF, I am witness to its effects daily. Abused Father Syndrome is very real. As a member of FNF, I am witness to its effects daily.

]]> By: admin http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html/comment-page-1#comment-11 admin Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:15:10 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=197#comment-11 My wife of 18 years left me for a married millionaire and has since turned my children against me. Were I not a Christian raised by two of the finest parents on the face of the earth, she would be dead now. Some of her lies include telling my children I first had an affair on her and it was me that filed for the divorce. I have offered to take a lie detector test on the affair business and told the kids (both now over 18) to go to the county seat to read the divorce papers. They refuse. A woman I dated put it to me such that I can cope, "Your kids know you love them and that love is unconditional. With your ex, they are not so sure. They would do anything to try to win her approval and that includes hurting their father." These wise words from a woman with little in the way of education beyond high school made me investigate sociopathic personality disorders. I got the answers I need to go on in this thing we call "life". Because I love my children so very much, and this is indeed not a contest between my ex and I as she would have it be, I worry most about my children and how crushed they will feel when they discover they have given up a relationship with a father who did nothing wrong for a mother who was for and about lies. How betrayed will they feel whether I am in my golden years or in my gr ave? How devastated will they be? How could a mother do this to a man who helped her conceive and who supposedly loves the children she conceived with him? Anonymous respondent from Illinois My wife of 18 years left me for a married millionaire and has since turned my children against me. Were I not a Christian raised by two of the finest parents on the face of the earth, she would be dead now. Some of her lies include telling my children I first had an affair on her and it was me that filed for the divorce. I have offered to take a lie detector test on the affair business and told the kids (both now over 18) to go to the county seat to read the divorce papers. They refuse.

A woman I dated put it to me such that I can cope, “Your kids know you love them and that love is unconditional. With your ex, they are not so sure. They would do anything to try to win her approval and that includes hurting their father.” These wise words from a woman with little in the way of education beyond high school made me investigate sociopathic personality disorders. I got the answers I need to go on in this thing we call “life”.

Because I love my children so very much, and this is indeed not a contest between my ex and I as she would have it be, I worry most about my children and how crushed they will feel when they discover they have given up a relationship with a father who did nothing wrong for a mother who was for and about lies. How betrayed will they feel whether I am in my golden years or in my gr ave? How devastated will they be? How could a mother do this to a man who helped her conceive and who supposedly loves the children she conceived with him?

Anonymous respondent from Illinois

]]> By: admin http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/04/abused-father-syndrome.html/comment-page-1#comment-10 admin Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:14:40 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=197#comment-10 Yes this is an excellent article. What we need is to publish these type of letters in national / local press to coincide with the feminist rubbish that is a regular feature in our local / national papers. if this is not done the population keep in their mind that men are the baddies. We need to highlight the baddy females as well. Regards John Yes this is an excellent article. What we need is to publish these type of letters in national / local press to coincide with the feminist rubbish that is a regular feature in our local / national papers. if this is not done the population keep in their mind that men are the baddies. We need to highlight the baddy females as well.

Regards

John

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