Comments on: Forced to accuse father of sexual abuse http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/01/forced-accuse-father-of-abuse.html Putting equal parenting on the agenda Fri, 12 Mar 2010 15:19:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: shirley18 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/2009/01/forced-accuse-father-of-abuse.html/comment-page-1#comment-8 shirley18 Sun, 22 Feb 2009 10:38:26 +0000 http://www.equalparentingalliance.org/?p=179#comment-8 I too believe that if you tell a child often enough that something has happened or someone has done something, they will eventually believe it, and see it in their own mind as an actual event. The imagination is a powerfull tool. Just like hypnotism, I believe a traumatized child or person, who does not know how to fight the forces of suggestability will eventually comply to what is constantly being fed to them. The mind is a strange thing, and can most definately be used against us to destroy us. The Stockholm Syndrome is also an interesting study on how a captive can start to love their captor. If you cant beat them, join them. It goes on every day in families, sometimes in a very subtle way. Women use it a lot to make their children love and conform to them, and turn them against their fathers. Because we cannot stand up to someone, most especially when we are a child, we make ourselves love that person. We have guilt that we have hatred, to we ease our hatred by turning it into conformity. I will most definately try to read your book, and hopefully it will get published to help others. I too believe that if you tell a child often enough that something has happened or someone has done something, they will eventually believe it, and see it in their own mind as an actual event. The imagination is a powerfull tool. Just like hypnotism, I believe a traumatized child or person, who does not know how to fight the forces of suggestability will eventually comply to what is constantly being fed to them.

The mind is a strange thing, and can most definately be used against us to destroy us.

The Stockholm Syndrome is also an interesting study on how a captive can start to love their captor. If you cant beat them, join them. It goes on every day in families, sometimes in a very subtle way. Women use it a lot to make their children love and conform to them, and turn them against their fathers.

Because we cannot stand up to someone, most especially when we are a child, we make ourselves love that person. We have guilt that we have hatred, to we ease our hatred by turning it into conformity.

I will most definately try to read your book, and hopefully it will get published to help others.

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